Some people ask for eggs “over medium” as a compromise. These are the same people who say “I’m fine with whatever” and then veto every restaurant. Over medium is the political moderate of the egg world. Nobody really loves it, but it keeps the family peace.
I once dated someone who only ate eggs poached. That relationship didn’t last. When you can’t agree on a breakfast egg, you probably can’t agree on a life mortgage either. Scrambled vs. over easy is about compatibility.