Remember when you first started dating and you’d do ridiculous things just to hear each other laugh? Maybe you tried to build IKEA furniture without instructions, or you attempted to cook a fancy meal that ended up looking like a crime scene. That shared silliness is a secret superpower.
So, plan a low-stakes disaster. Go to a trampoline park, attempt to paint a portrait of your pet, or build a fort out of couch cushions. The goal isn’t to be impressive—it’s to be present. The spark loves it when you both forget to be serious for twenty minutes.