Forget age. Ask yourself: Can they unlock the door? Can they use the phone? Do they know not to cook toast with a fork? If they say “yes” with a straight face, you’re golden.
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Try a trial run. Leave them alone for 15 minutes while you buy milk. Hide around the corner. If they immediately blast music and eat frosting, they’re not ready. If they neatly fold laundry and call you to ask if they can shower, you’ve birthed a tiny CEO.
Pro tip: Hide a camera (not creepy, okay?) or use a smart speaker to check in. “Hey kid, do you hear the smoke alarm?” If they laugh, you have your answer.
The Emergency Convo (Don’t Skip)
Before you leave, do the “what if” game. “What if someone knocks?” (Answer: Do not open the door, even if they claim to be a unicorn.) “What if you can’t reach me?” (Answer: Call Grandma. Or the neighbor who always has cookies.)
Funny detail: Kids often memorize the wrong phone number. Practice until they can recite yours backwards, drunk on sugar. It’s the only way.