So go ahead. Next time your partner describes the new curtains as “a sort of… dusty rose… but with feeling,” just say, “Honey, can you show me with images?” They might sigh, but deep down, they’re glad you asked.
It’s not a failure of language. It’s a celebration of clarity. You’re not giving up on words; you’re just giving your brain a break. You’re choosing the path of least resistance, which is the path of most happiness.
And honestly, wouldn’t you rather look at a funny cat picture than read a paragraph about how fluffy it is? Exactly. Show me the cat, and you’ll have my entire heart.