Nobody wants a birthday card that reads like a corporate memo. Lead with a shared memory, even a silly one. “Remember when you fell asleep in your spaghetti?”
This immediately sets the tone: I’m your dad, and I see the whole messy, hilarious picture of you. It breaks the ice before you get to the sappy stuff.
Think of it like a good joke—you need a setup before the punchline. The setup is your shared history, and the punchline is how proud you are of the man he’s becoming.
Brag a little (he secretly loves it)
Here’s the secret: sons crave your approval more than they’ll ever admit. So, go ahead and brag. Mention that time he mastered a skateboard trick, or how he handled a tough test at school.
You don’t have to write a novel. Just pick one specific thing. “I saw how you stood up for your friend last week—that was a boss move.” That’s more powerful than a hundred generic compliments.
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And when you write it, picture his face when he reads it. That little smirk? That’s your win. You’re basically giving him a superpower for his birthday.
